Less than a month after we were married, we discovered that our newly-formed family of two had become a family of three. If we were to continue expanding the family at this rate, we would just about need a mini-bus before our fifth wedding anniversary!

Having a baby so soon had never been part of our plan, although we had never really established a firm “plan.” For the most part, we were pretty focused on getting our house ready to be inhabited and finalizing wedding details. We didn’t take much pre-wedding time to talk through our plans for that kind of post-wedding thing…figured there would be plenty of time for that after we got through the wedding. As many couples as there are out there that have such a difficult time “starting a family,” we never seriously considered the possibility of having a baby right away.

So much for the luxury of pre-pregnancy planning! The whole idea of taking folic acid supplements for six months before conceiving was right down the drain, along with a whole pile of other recommendations. Judging from some of the pre-pregnancy checklists out there, our daughter should be a health mess, and I should have had a miserable pregnancy. Oh well–wrong on both counts. God preserved us both, despite my fanaticism in eating the foods with the vitamins and minerals I needed, rather than popping prenatal vitamins.

For those who have an opportunity to take care of some preparations before conceiving, there are many websites with advice, recommendations, and checklists. One plus of our timing was that I was in great shape, having been exercising faithfully for a couple years, partially in preparation for the wedding. The exercise before, throughout, and shortly following her birth was probably the best “move” we made, in any of the things we were able to control–that, and opting for a birthing center. With the surprise of suddenly having to find a caregiver for prenatal appointments through delivery and postpartum care, we worked off the insurance list, and the birth center we found was a God-send.

If we had it to do all over again, we would, most likely, change nothing. That is human nature, and we are no exception. As far as the birthing center was concerned, there would definitely be no changes. The only changes I would hope we would make would be mostly in the postpartum period, when I fell for a couple postpartum myths that most moms probably want to believe…. I’m still trying to get rid of the baby belly. Granted, I could have been more vigilant during the pregnancy, probably have passed up some of the chocolate and peanut butter (my only valid craving). Life would probably be easier now!

Although we didn’t “schedule” her, our little girl is an absolute joy, except for those rare moments when she runs out of good behavior and melts down. Even then, we’re so very thankful for her. We wouldn’t send her back, even if we could, and we’re growing to love her more every day, as the little person in there is emerging, and we’re getting to know her.

The Women’s Center-Dayton serves women of all ages who may have questions or concerns about pregnancy, abortion, sexual health, and other related issues. The Women’s Center offers free urine pregnancy tests with 99% accuracy and ultrasound scans. All our services are provided free of charge and all information is kept confidential. Our services are available to everyone regardless of age, race, or religion. It is our commitment to respect the rights and privacy of our clients. We offer a safe environment for individuals to find the help and support they need.

If you are facing an unplanned pregnancy, understanding your options is an important next step. A trained consultant will provide factual information about all your options in a non-judgmental and caring atmosphere. During your consultation, we will provide accurate information about parenting, abortion, and adoption. Our consultants can offer additional assistance relevant to your situation.

An ultrasound scan will be scheduled following a positive test to verify that it is a viable, uterine pregnancy. The Women’s Center has additional services that assist women with parenting-related issues and concerns. The Women’s Center has a program which helps pregnant women and mothers receive material items for their children. Additionally, we offer educational classes and post-abortion support.

In addition to providing information regarding pregnancy, we also have information about birth control, Sexually Transmitted Diseases, and sexual health issues. We offer a holistic alternative to conventional birth control. The Women’s Center located in Fairborn across from Wright State University provides free, confidential STD testing to girls and women. If you are interested in receiving STD testing, please call 937-306-1400 to schedule an appointment.

The Women’s Center-Dayton is located on 359 Forest Avenue, Suite 105. Please call us to schedule an appointment at 937-228-2222. Our hotline number is available 24 hours a day, 7 day a week. The Women’s Center-Dayton office hours are Monday 12 pm – 7 pm, Tuesday 10 am – 4 pm, Wednesday 10 am – 4 pm, Thursday 12 pm – 7 pm, and Friday 10 am – 4 pm. Appointments may be made by phone or through our website at www.womenscenterohio.com. Walk-ins are welcome as well.

If you are unable to schedule an appointment at the Dayton location, we have four additional locations in Ohio for your convenience. Our other four locations are Fairborn (937-306-1400), Kettering (937-643-4673), Lebanon (513-934-1777), and Sidney (937-498-4425). Feel free to contact one of our other centers to schedule an appointment.

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